Do you know that heart-wrenching feeling when you're in a public place, and you momentarily lose sight of your child? That gut-wrenching panic that sets in, making you feel like your world has just dropped to the floor?

Well, I don't experience that anymore because...

I use a child leash to keep my kid safe!

And yes, I've faced judgment, criticism, and the occasional raised eyebrow from some people. They call me names like barbaric or lazy. They say things like:

"Leashes are for animals, not children."

"A leash is for parents who can't control their kids."

"Child leashes are for lazy parents who can't pay attention."

But here's what I have to say: those who make snide comments like these probably have kids who always obediently stay by their side, never once pulling their hand away and darting off. Or, they might not be parents at all.

They may not know what it's like to manage strong-willed children or understand that toddlers have virtually zero impulse control. The urge to run across the road to see something exciting can be irresistible to a child, and the concept of danger or separation from their parents might not even cross their minds. And let's not even get started on the challenges of keeping a developmentally challenged child safe.

To those who label me barbaric for using a child leash, here's my simple response: I sleep soundly at night. My children are in their beds, safe and sound. They're not in a hospital, and heaven forbid, not in a morgue. I always know where they are, thanks to a child leash. I'd rather have peace of mind about my children's safety than worry about the opinions of judgmental onlookers who may have never been parents themselves or who have simply forgotten what it's like.

When we're in crowded places, my children are always within arm's reach. I can see them at all times. There's no chance of me losing sight of them and someone snatching them away. I have five children, and none of them are little angels who obediently follow along. They're energetic, spirited, and curious – in other words, perfectly normal. And I'm perfectly fine with that. Until they're old enough to walk independently, a child leash helps strike a balance. It gives them the freedom to explore while giving me the peace of mind that they're close and safe.

I wouldn't have it any other way.

Take a stroll through an airport, and you'll understand why a child leash can be a parent's best friend. One child wants to see the airplanes through the window, another wants to visit the candy store, and yet another is attempting to sneak a lollipop out of the carry-on bag. Without a baby leash, it could quickly turn into chaos.

Now, let's address the misconception that parents who use child leashes are lazy. My husband and I are far from lazy parents. We are proactive and deeply involved in our children's lives. However, we firmly believe that prevention is better than cure.

Consider a trip to the grocery store – it can be a nightmare without a child leash. I don't want to be the parent with a screaming child in the shopping cart. I also don't want to be the parent whose child knocks over a display or breaks something valuable. Our rule for our toddlers is simple: if they want to walk freely, they must stay within arm's reach. A child leash allows us to enforce that rule and keep them safe.

DISPELLING MISCONCEPTIONS: HOW A CHILD LEASH DOES NOT DEGRADE MY CHILD

But what about the argument that child leashes are degrading to children? Well, let me set the record straight. We strive to guide our children with kindness and respect. When we use a child leash, we're not tugging or pulling our children – they are leading us! They're happy in their toddler leashes; just one look will tell you that. It gives them the freedom to walk on their own instead of being confined to strollers, and they prefer it.

And let's not forget about safety. We ensure the child leash we use is always comfortable, no matter the season or activity. It's designed to be broad enough to cover a toddler's chest without causing any discomfort or harm. It's also lightweight and breathable to prevent heat rashes.

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Now, some may question the comparison between child leashes and safety mechanisms like car seats and high chairs. It's a valid point. We strap our children into car seats and high chairs to keep them safe – it's the law. Child leashes serve the same purpose: protecting our kids from potential dangers they may not yet understand.

I'm far from being a neurotic mom. I'm calm. I become less calm when my children's safety mechanisms are taken away. With five kids, it's impossible for me and my husband to keep an eye on each of them at all times. We're often tired and overworked, functioning on very little sleep. So, if a child leash can help us relax just a little while we're out, while keeping our children safe, I don't see anything wrong with that.

Finally, what about those who judge us based on appearances? They see a dog in a stroller and a child on a leash and think something is seriously wrong with the world. But let me explain: my twins are high-energy, spirited kids. They can't stay strapped into a stroller for extended periods. That's where the child leash comes in – my backup plan. It's compact enough to fit in my purse and easy to strap onto the twins. They get the freedom to walk, and I get peace of mind knowing they're safe, even if I'm momentarily distracted.

Next?

So, what's next for my family and me? We're planning an international trip soon, and my twins are still only two years old. We'll bring the double stroller along, but let's face it, no child can stay in a stroller for hours on end. That's why I always have my trusty child leash – small enough to fit in my purse.

In the end, you can judge me all you want, but one thing is crystal clear: I won't take risks with my children's safety. Their well-being matters more to me than anyone's opinion. Remember, I'm no parenting expert, but I have five kids and I'm still learning every day. Experts often say, "Do what feels right. Don't be bothered by the opinions of others. You're the parent, and you make the call." If a child leash feels right for you, that's great. If it's not for you, that's perfectly fine too. Ultimately, you make the decision based on what feels right for your family.